Some people on the server have scammer walls, u can go check up on those for known scammers or to report scammer so other people don't make the same mistake: SADPICKLEGOD for instance has a scammer wall.

You guys are so sweet!

You could also try asking in chat and trade it for something else u don't need.

I would assume paypal is safest bet. The communication with paypal is very easy. Paypal is used almost anywhere. It does suck that u can charge back sometimes because many people getting blacklisted because of irl deals.

Happy birthday!