Reasons why I don't like to socialise in real life.

[FestiveTashi]

1. I simple don't like some people.
2. I have major trust issues.
3. I'm awkward.
4. I tend not to make friends because one day I won't ever see them again.
5. If I do ever make close friends, I'm afraid of them leaving me or if I get replaced.
6. I've moved to school about 6 times in my life and that's reason why I don't talk to people that much.
7. I feel like they will always judge me for literally anything.
8. I've had fake friends in the past and I can't be bothered to have more.
9. In general I have a hard time talking to someone and I have never told anybody about what's going on in my life and I don't plan on doing so anytime soon.

I didn't make this post for sympathy or clout, so please don't make any assumptions about this, call me a loner, make fun of me, do whatever I couldn't care less.

 

[MamaLuigi]

1. I simple don't like some people.
2. I have major trust issues.
3. I'm awkward.
4. I tend not to make friends because one day I won't ever see them again.
5. If I do ever make close friends, I'm afraid of them leaving me or if I get replaced.
6. I've moved to school about 6 times in my life and that's reason why I don't talk to people that much.
7. I feel like they will always judge me for literally anything.
8. I've had fake friends in the past and I can't be bothered to have more.
9. In general I have a hard time talking to someone and I have never told anybody about what's going on in my life and I don't plan on doing so anytime soon.

I didn't make this post for sympathy or clout, so please don't make any assumptions about this, call me a loner, make fun of me, do whatever I couldn't care less.

Mood.

 

[Milk_]

1. I simple don't like some people.
2. I have major trust issues.
3. I'm awkward.
4. I tend not to make friends because one day I won't ever see them again.
5. If I do ever make close friends, I'm afraid of them leaving me or if I get replaced.
6. I've moved to school about 6 times in my life and that's reason why I don't talk to people that much.
7. I feel like they will always judge me for literally anything.
8. I've had fake friends in the past and I can't be bothered to have more.
9. In general I have a hard time talking to someone and I have never told anybody about what's going on in my life and I don't plan on doing so anytime soon.

I didn't make this post for sympathy or clout, so please don't make any assumptions about this, call me a loner, make fun of me, do whatever I couldn't care less.

y do I relate to everything on this

 

[gxlden]

 

[MamaLuigi]

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I wish I had free health care

 

[Yellow]

that's fine

 

[dior]

1. I simple don't like some people.

understandable, its normal not to like someone

2. I have major trust issues.

just try to convince yourself you can trust some people. u dont need to trust everyone, but u need to find people who seem fine. after that, try and branch out with friends of friends and etc

3. I'm awkward.

we're all awkward at times, just try to overcome it

4. I tend not to make friends because one day I won't ever see them again.

yes, but the memories of friends will last, and it'll be good memories

5. If I do ever make close friends, I'm afraid of them leaving me or if I get replaced.

thats why u wanna have some variety in friendships. u dont just wanna have ur one friend from like math class and thats it, u wanna try and multiple friends from multiple different places. dont put all ur eggs in one basket

6. I've moved to school about 6 times in my life and that's reason why I don't talk to people that much.

just try and overcome that and try and involve urself

7. I feel like they will always judge me for literally anything.

they wont, just try and be friendly and nice, its hard to judge or pick on someone who is friendly and nice

8. I've had fake friends in the past and I can't be bothered to have more.

just try and get involved, find people with similar interests, and yea

9. In general I have a hard time talking to someone and I have never told anybody about what's going on in my life and I don't plan on doing so anytime soon.

u dont have to

I didn't make this post for sympathy or clout, so please don't make any assumptions about this, call me a loner, make fun of me, do whatever I couldn't care less.

i dont think any normal person will make fun of u for not finding it super easy to make friends.
also, if you ever do feel very down, or u just want someone to talk to, u can ask ur parents to take u to a therapist

kk tl;dr: u have nothing to be afraid of, just try and find friends who have similar interests. u have nothing to be nervous about, because everyone wants to be friends with nice people, so you just have to be friendly. try not to avoid social interaction, try to start up conversations (at appropriate times). overall, involve yourself and be yourself.

even tho idk u irl, ill be ur friend.

 

[MamaLuigi]

understandable, its normal not to like someone

just try to convince yourself you can trust some people. u dont need to trust everyone, but u need to find people who seem fine. after that, try and branch out with friends of friends and etc

we're all awkward at times, just try to overcome it

yes, but the memories of friends will last, and it'll be good memories

thats why u wanna have some variety in friendships. u dont just wanna have ur one friend from like math class and thats it, u wanna try and multiple friends from multiple different places. dont put all ur eggs in one basket

just try and overcome that and try and involve urself

they wont, just try and be friendly and nice, its hard to judge or pick on someone who is friendly and nice

just try and get involved, find people with similar interests, and yea

u dont have to

i dont think any normal person will make fun of u for not finding it super easy to make friends.
also, if you ever do feel very down, or u just want someone to talk to, u can ask ur parents to take u to a therapist

kk tl;dr: u have nothing to be afraid of, just try and find friends who have similar interests. u have nothing to be nervous about, because everyone wants to be friends with nice people, so you just have to be friendly. try not to avoid social interaction, try to start up conversations (at appropriate times). overall, involve yourself and be yourself.

even tho idk u irl, ill be ur friend.

You are, so far, the nicest person in this forums.

 

[Milk_]

You are, so far, the nicest person in this forums.

fr hes so wise

 

[krovic]

I tend not to make friends because one day I won't ever see them again.

;(

 

[System64]

1. I simple don't like some people.
2. I have major trust issues.
3. I'm awkward.
4. I tend not to make friends because one day I won't ever see them again.
5. If I do ever make close friends, I'm afraid of them leaving me or if I get replaced.
6. I've moved to school about 6 times in my life and that's reason why I don't talk to people that much.
7. I feel like they will always judge me for literally anything.
8. I've had fake friends in the past and I can't be bothered to have more.
9. In general I have a hard time talking to someone and I have never told anybody about what's going on in my life and I don't plan on doing so anytime soon.

I didn't make this post for sympathy or clout, so please don't make any assumptions about this, call me a loner, make fun of me, do whatever I couldn't care less.

https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test do this it's really cool, I'm INTP

 

[KallieDere]

1. I simple don't like some people.
2. I have major trust issues.
3. I'm awkward.
4. I tend not to make friends because one day I won't ever see them again.
5. If I do ever make close friends, I'm afraid of them leaving me or if I get replaced.
6. I've moved to school about 6 times in my life and that's reason why I don't talk to people that much.
7. I feel like they will always judge me for literally anything.
8. I've had fake friends in the past and I can't be bothered to have more.
9. In general I have a hard time talking to someone and I have never told anybody about what's going on in my life and I don't plan on doing so anytime soon.

I didn't make this post for sympathy or clout, so please don't make any assumptions about this, call me a loner, make fun of me, do whatever I couldn't care less.

I relate to all of this, you're not alone <3

 

[neverunit]

https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test do this it's really cool, I'm INTP

Am infp

 

[System64]

Am infp

nicee we're close

 

[MamaLuigi]

https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test do this it's really cool, I'm INTP

Warning: these results are extremely inaccurate. You can't just describe yourself with 4 letters and expect to act like that forever. While this test, can describe how you are feeling rn but not in the long term.

 

[neverunit]

Warning: these results are extremely inaccurate. You can't just describe yourself with 4 letters and expect to act like that forever. While this test, can describe how you are feeling rn but not in the long term.

never had he said it was accurate, he said it was cool. also, if you're honest about this then it should be relatively accurate. also, nobody's putting this on their resume, so no

 

[MamaLuigi]

never had he said it was accurate, he said it was cool. also, if you're honest about this then it should be relatively accurate. also, nobody's putting this on their resume, so no

Actually, some job interviews require you to do these type of tests and depending on what you get can affect the type of position you do/dont want and some employers can even decline your job. These tests were first created by a writer and their mother back in 1944 without the use of scientifical research, experiments, or any data at all. They just guessed that there were more than 16 traits in some people. After they released it to the public, it became popular and explains why they were used in job.

 

[System64]

Warning: these results are extremely inaccurate. You can't just describe yourself with 4 letters and expect to act like that forever. While this test, can describe how you are feeling rn but not in the long term.

I feel like it's pretty accurate, of course it's not scientific but in my case it was quite accurate (I literally fit like 99% of INTP stereotypes). Plus it doesn't really describe feelings, more like how your mind works, or more specifically certain things about your mind (if you're introverted or extroverted, if you're a thinker or a feeler, etc). Also it's just for fun

never had he said it was accurate, he said it was cool. also, if you're honest about this then it should be relatively accurate. also, nobody's putting this on their resume, so no

true

Actually, some job interviews require you to do these type of tests and depending on what you get can affect the type of position you do/dont want and some employers can even decline your job. These tests were first created by a writer and their mother back in 1944 without the use of scientifical research, experiments, or any data at all. They just guessed that there were more than 16 traits in some people. After they released it to the public, it became popular and explains why they were used in job.

I'm pretty sure there are quite a few studies backing up the MBTI types, but even my Enneagram type matches up really nicely

 

[MamaLuigi]

I feel like it's pretty accurate, of course it's not scientific but in my case it was quite accurate (I literally fit like 99% of INTP stereotypes). Plus it doesn't really describe feelings, more like how your mind works, or more specifically certain things about your mind (if you're introverted or extroverted, if you're a thinker or a feeler, etc). Also it's just for fun

true

I'm pretty sure there are quite a few studies backing up the MBTI types, but even my Enneagram type matches up really nicely

True. All I am saying is that your type of personality will change in the future. The test tricks people into thinking that that's their personality forever.

 

[System64]

True. All I am saying is that your type of personality will change in the future. The test tricks people into thinking that that's their personality forever.

oh, yes I'm well aware of that