why have more players been leaving invadedlands

[Nokatana]

I'm genuinely wondering how it's inappropriate

It’s not the server specifically, more of the players, also innapropraite can also mean as mocking someone, people on here mock others religon, smh and innapropraite as in some people treat you weirdly.

 

[Obeles]

Reading this thread each day is my new form of entertainment ngl

 

[Nokatana]

Reading this thread each day is my new form of entertainment ngl

Really? I keep forgetting it exists.

 

[DiamondGirl2912]

DiamondGirl please stop with the "mental health" stuff. If someone says something awful to you just /ignore them and move on!

first of all its not me, and second of all i cant /ignore staff when they are in vanish and they can probably still /msg me even if i would /ignore them. And i still have them in a dc group chat and its quite funny to see them mess up an easy rank and blame the player for the mistake XD

 

[blumun]

first of all its not me, and second of all i cant /ignore staff when they are in vanish and they can probably still /msg me even if i would /ignore them. And i still have them in a dc group chat and its quite funny to see them mess up an easy rank and blame the player for the mistake XDView attachment 34003

cookie literally says "ik its my own fault" so how is magy blaming the player here? magys just trying to figure out what went wrong, at least reading their last msg to cookie lmao?

 

[zxombie]

first of all its not me, and second of all i cant /ignore staff when they are in vanish and they can probably still /msg me even if i would /ignore them. And i still have them in a dc group chat and its quite funny to see them mess up an easy rank and blame the player for the mistake XDView attachment 34003

bro this is def on cookie even besides the fact that the character limit is like 2 characters over you can legit preview the rank like mqgy said. if anything this was def on them

 

[Japaneseskeppy]

Diamondgirl I dont see how this would affect mental health AT ALL. It was 100% on cookie.

 

[Shried]

it could js be because of a lack of advertisements

 

[Goldwarrior1002]

it could js be because of a lack of advertisements

that also could be a possibility. Like the same amount of ppl are leaving as always, but ppl just arnt joining because nobody is advertising it anywhere, so it seems like more ppl are quitting than normal

 

[DiamondGirl2912]

cookie literally says "ik its my own fault" so how is magy blaming the player here? magys just trying to figure out what went wrong, at least reading their last msg to cookie lmao?

ever heard of sarcasm? also magy left the chat without waiting for an answer, it still isnt fixed.

 

[Bedrock]

first of all its not me, and second of all i cant /ignore staff when they are in vanish and they can probably still /msg me even if i would /ignore them. And i still have them in a dc group chat and its quite funny to see them mess up an easy rank and blame the player for the mistake XDView attachment 34003

The amount of posts contradicting the previous claim of the players having "mental issues" is wild, stating the fact that cookie knew that it was his fault. I would agree with @Nokatana though that the players attribute to applications they use.

ever heard of sarcasm? also magy left the chat without waiting for an answer, it still isnt fixed.

I don't think it was sarcasm, if so, how are broken ranks affecting mental health?

 

[blumun]

ever heard of sarcasm? also magy left the chat without waiting for an answer, it still isnt fixed.

when giving feedback / making a complaint about something, or something someone did, or a person overall it's best to not include sarcasm as that can 1. give off the wrong impression to the person you're giving feedback to, and 2. might result in them taking the feedback to heart, changing, and then doing something you dont want at all...

in my opinion, it seems like magy was just trying to help, and if the person really needed help they couldve always dmed a staff member. magy leaving "the chat" without waiting for an answer is fully her decision no? they arent obliged to be somewhere

 

[DiamondGirl2912]

Diamondgirl I dont see how this would affect mental health AT ALL. It was 100% on cookie.

like i said, to explain whats wrong i gotta say some really personal stuff wich i'm not doing. and i'm not gonna share all info i have because its mainly from other people, i'm not just gonna expose them. but long story short: people see a fun youtuber called skeppy, they join invadedlands, they keep playing and waiting to see skeppy. they see the real staff team of skeppy, it looks amazing! then they get griefed, scammed, bullied and/or herrased. They start feeling bad about themselves, they get depression or it gets worse. they go to the very very cool staff team because its from Skeppy and everything from skeppy is cool. and then staff tells them ''sorry i can't help you'' over and over and over. then we have some staff members with a attitude, they just tell you just shut the f up (they dont actually say that, they just use nicer words). then they start feeling even worse and boom! we end up with a server were half the players have depression, the other half are optemistic people who say everything is bs until they find out themselves. and them we also have the couple people with suicidal toughts (no i'm not being dramatic, and no im not giving proof because i'm not just gonna call them out for it). also it turns out a former IL player already did comit suicide, and i just want people to quit so this doesnt happen to anyone. if you don't agree, fine, i really dont care.

Just to make things clear: no i'm not expossing staff or anyone with this thoughts. i'm not trying to be rude or disrecpectfull. I'm just trying to avoid people getting depression or worse depression because of InvadedLands. Have a nice day

 

[DiamondGirl2912]

when giving feedback / making a complaint about something, or something someone did, or a person overall it's best to not include sarcasm as that can 1. give off the wrong impression to the person you're giving feedback to, and 2. might result in them taking the feedback to heart, changing, and then doing something you dont want at all...

in my opinion, it seems like magy was just trying to help, and if the person really needed help they couldve always dmed a staff member. magy leaving "the chat" without waiting for an answer is fully her decision no? they arent obliged to be somewhere

I do understand why you think this, but i don't think you know cookie like i do and are heavily overating magy. it will probably take some time to understand everything because A LOT has been going on between me and staff in the past months, mainly arguments

 

[blumun]

like i said, to explain whats wrong i gotta say some really personal stuff wich i'm not doing. and i'm not gonna share all info i have because its mainly from other people, i'm not just gonna expose them. but long story short: people see a fun youtuber called skeppy, they join invadedlands, they keep playing and waiting to see skeppy. they see the real staff team of skeppy, it looks amazing! then they get griefed, scammed, bullied and/or herrased. They start feeling bad about themselves, they get depression or it gets worse. they go to the very very cool staff team because its from Skeppy and everything from skeppy is cool. and then staff tells them ''sorry i can't help you'' over and over and over. then we have some staff members with a attitude, they just tell you just shut the f up (they dont actually say that, they just use nicer words). then they start feeling even worse and boom! we end up with a server were half the players have depression, the other half are optemistic people who say everything is bs until they find out themselves. and them we also have the couple people with suicidal toughts (no i'm not being dramatic, and no im not giving proof because i'm not just gonna call them out for it). also it turns out a former IL player already did comit suicide, and i just want people to quit so this doesnt happen to anyone. if you don't agree, fine, i really dont care.

Just to make things clear: no i'm not expossing staff or anyone with this thoughts. i'm not trying to be rude or disrecpectfull. I'm just trying to avoid people getting depression or worse depression because of InvadedLands. Have a nice day

i dont think theres any correlation between the staff team not being able to help someone with things like that and half (which i assume to be a big over exaggeration) of the server to have depression. i think it's both unfair and cruel to put this on the staff team, as when making any type of player report it's your responsibility to have evidence. if you don't, then obviously staff can't just take someones word for what has happened. also if it's outside of the server itself they have no control or power to do anything? so it's insane that you put it on the staff team when realistically they're literally doing what they can and are allowed to do. you say you're not being disrespectful but then you say i'm overrating magy. from personal experience i know this is not true, she (like the rest of the staff team) is doing an amazing job and i think it's insane to pull the team through the mud like this when, once again, it's YOUR responsibility to have evidence of stuff happening. you keep saying you have proof but it's proof that other people have provided you which contains info about themselves. if this is actual proof of anything, i'd encourage you, to encourage them to tell their own story. that way we don't have someone in the middle (you) claiming a bunch of stuff without any evidence at all, but keeps saying "oh i have evidence!". that way, i can make up anything and just say i have evidence but it's someone else's info so i wont share it... it just, simply doesnt make sense.

also, if you're being cyberbullied or harassed online, just... turn your pc off. walk away. go outside. if you're saying you're depressed because of being on the server, going outside and getting vitamin D is actually proven to help your mental health as it regulates your mood and supports your brain function, and aids in the production of serotonin, which can improve the symptoms of depression and/or anxiety.

have a nice day o/

 

[Bedrock]

like i said, to explain whats wrong i gotta say some really personal stuff wich i'm not doing. and i'm not gonna share all info i have because its mainly from other people, i'm not just gonna expose them. but long story short: people see a fun youtuber called skeppy, they join invadedlands, they keep playing and waiting to see skeppy. they see the real staff team of skeppy, it looks amazing! then they get griefed, scammed, bullied and/or herrased. They start feeling bad about themselves, they get depression or it gets worse. they go to the very very cool staff team because its from Skeppy and everything from skeppy is cool. and then staff tells them ''sorry i can't help you'' over and over and over. then we have some staff members with a attitude, they just tell you just shut the f up (they dont actually say that, they just use nicer words). then they start feeling even worse and boom! we end up with a server were half the players have depression, the other half are optemistic people who say everything is bs until they find out themselves. and them we also have the couple people with suicidal toughts (no i'm not being dramatic, and no im not giving proof because i'm not just gonna call them out for it). also it turns out a former IL player already did comit suicide, and i just want people to quit so this doesnt happen to anyone. if you don't agree, fine, i really dont care.

Just to make things clear: no i'm not expossing staff or anyone with this thoughts. i'm not trying to be rude or disrecpectfull. I'm just trying to avoid people getting depression or worse depression because of InvadedLands. Have a nice day

You know not every player is like that, from advertising I would see some players joining actually wanting to play this server (not just wanting to see Skeppy), they select staff that are actually worth and caring if they can't resolve the issue they will usually ask another staff. /ignore any player harassing or bullying you, if it escalates report them in the forums, any kind of scams are allowed in the server.
I still cannot believe this thread is still going over a month…

 

[DiamondGirl2912]

i dont think theres any correlation between the staff team not being able to help someone with things like that and half (which i assume to be a big over exaggeration) of the server to have depression. i think it's both unfair and cruel to put this on the staff team, as when making any type of player report it's your responsibility to have evidence. if you don't, then obviously staff can't just take someones word for what has happened. also if it's outside of the server itself they have no control or power to do anything? so it's insane that you put it on the staff team when realistically they're literally doing what they can and are allowed to do. you say you're not being disrespectful but then you say i'm overrating magy. from personal experience i know this is not true, she (like the rest of the staff team) is doing an amazing job and i think it's insane to pull the team through the mud like this when, once again, it's YOUR responsibility to have evidence of stuff happening. you keep saying you have proof but it's proof that other people have provided you which contains info about themselves. if this is actual proof of anything, i'd encourage you, to encourage them to tell their own story. that way we don't have someone in the middle (you) claiming a bunch of stuff without any evidence at all, but keeps saying "oh i have evidence!". that way, i can make up anything and just say i have evidence but it's someone else's info so i wont share it... it just, simply doesnt make sense.

also, if you're being cyberbullied or harassed online, just... turn your pc off. walk away. go outside. if you're saying you're depressed because of being on the server, going outside and getting vitamin D is actually proven to help your mental health as it regulates your mood and supports your brain function, and aids in the production of serotonin, which can improve the symptoms of depression and/or anxiety.

have a nice day o/

first of all I don't remember saying that i have depression, and Vitemin D isn't some magic cure to depression. Oh and wdym dumping it on staff? all i asked them was to be a little nicer, help some more and maybe change the rules a bit to help the server grow. i didn't ask them to be an unpaid therepist. I actually made a list of things with some people of changes that should be made, and none of those include dumping everything on staff. if u think i'm exaggerating, fine! but i'm really not. I got a screenshot of someone saying ''I'm trying to not do the knife into body thing'' You think thats normal? and we can see very clearly that multiple posts have been made about mental health problems, i don't blame staff for the full 100%, players also play a little role on this server, but i cant ask ever single player to change because someone gets suicidal thoughts of stuff they say. But what i can do is inform staff of whats happening, and explain that it might also be partly because of them. wich i tried, but then stuff happend and i decided staff really isnt worth my time. and no i don't have evidence of staff being rude, disrecpectfull and mean. (only 1 ss but Smoke already left the staff team) I just didn't expect i would need to spy on them and make a screenshot of every single mistake! so all i can do now is tell the enire truth of what happend, and advise people to quit, i don't do it in like posts or stuff, just in pms when people are already thinking about it. I'm not just here to ruin InvadedLands??? also I also did some stuff wrong, but atleast i tried listening to them, but it has to come from both sides, wich is why it didn't work.

 

[Japaneseskeppy]

Listen I get what your saying Diamondgirl but I dont think you should get depression from getting griefed on a minecraft server or scammed on a minecraft server.

 

[zxombie]

first of all I don't remember saying that i have depression, and Vitemin D isn't some magic cure to depression. Oh and wdym dumping it on staff? all i asked them was to be a little nicer, help some more and maybe change the rules a bit to help the server grow. i didn't ask them to be an unpaid therepist. I actually made a list of things with some people of changes that should be made, and none of those include dumping everything on staff. if u think i'm exaggerating, fine! but i'm really not. I got a screenshot of someone saying ''I'm trying to not do the knife into body thing'' You think thats normal? and we can see very clearly that multiple posts have been made about mental health problems, i don't blame staff for the full 100%, players also play a little role on this server, but i cant ask ever single player to change because someone gets suicidal thoughts of stuff they say. But what i can do is inform staff of whats happening, and explain that it might also be partly because of them. wich i tried, but then stuff happend and i decided staff really isnt worth my time. and no i don't have evidence of staff being rude, disrecpectfull and mean. (only 1 ss but Smoke already left the staff team) I just didn't expect i would need to spy on them and make a screenshot of every single mistake! so all i can do now is tell the enire truth of what happend, and advise people to quit, i don't do it in like posts or stuff, just in pms when people are already thinking about it. I'm not just here to ruin InvadedLands??? also I also did some stuff wrong, but atleast i tried listening to them, but it has to come from both sides, wich is why it didn't work.

so what ur saying is that we should quit invaded because staff isnt perfect and that "supposedly" amplifies people's problems outside of invaded causing them to do said stuff even though the examples youve given show no evidence that the point where they cross their limits is specifically caused by player/staff actions

 

[Nokatana]

like i said, to explain whats wrong i gotta say some really personal stuff wich i'm not doing. and i'm not gonna share all info i have because its mainly from other people, i'm not just gonna expose them. but long story short: people see a fun youtuber called skeppy, they join invadedlands, they keep playing and waiting to see skeppy. they see the real staff team of skeppy, it looks amazing! then they get griefed, scammed, bullied and/or herrased. They start feeling bad about themselves, they get depression or it gets worse. they go to the very very cool staff team because its from Skeppy and everything from skeppy is cool. and then staff tells them ''sorry i can't help you'' over and over and over. then we have some staff members with a attitude, they just tell you just shut the f up (they dont actually say that, they just use nicer words). then they start feeling even worse and boom! we end up with a server were half the players have depression, the other half are optemistic people who say everything is bs until they find out themselves. and them we also have the couple people with suicidal toughts (no i'm not being dramatic, and no im not giving proof because i'm not just gonna call them out for it). also it turns out a former IL player already did comit suicide, and i just want people to quit so this doesnt happen to anyone. if you don't agree, fine, i really dont care.

Just to make things clear: no i'm not expossing staff or anyone with this thoughts. i'm not trying to be rude or disrecpectfull. I'm just trying to avoid people getting depression or worse depression because of InvadedLands. Have a nice day

Yeah, I have so many friends on their with those thoughts of doing that to themselves, because of invadedlands but more of because of the people that do things, but staff also suck and worsen the wound.