My dad legit just left the house :(
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Hey man,
Don't worry! Everything will be alright. Soon after you grow up. You are going to learn that the world isn't all sunshine and rainbows.
I learnt to be strong and to be grateful for everything.
As a PTSD patient, I think that all you need to do is prioritize positive thoughts and keep your head up.
Don't worry! Everything will be alright. Soon after you grow up. You are going to learn that the world isn't all sunshine and rainbows.
I learnt to be strong and to be grateful for everything.
As a PTSD patient, I think that all you need to do is prioritize positive thoughts and keep your head up.
Don't let this wear you down. I hope you're alright. If you ever need to talk to someone, my discord is Hydrogen#0001. I don't really know what to say except I hope things get better with your mum & dad.
not sue but get his father back.
I feel like that would be worse, there would be so much tension
That's good.
i was reading through this all and i was just thinking, man the community is actually being SUPER nice for once, then i saw ur message and got sad again...
it's sad to see a community be so rough on people and it isn't just invaded, that is internet overall. if anyone is bothering you in DM's from the forums/in-game bud, always feel free to reach out to a staff member so they can handle it. i'll add you to the list of people i am currently praying for in this community, just had a subscriber who plays on InvadedLands often tell me his brother died in a car wreck and he feels killing himself is the only way to get over what he is going through. it's sad to see kids so young go through so much pain and as a kid i never went through any of this, so i really do hope the best of this situation. if you ever need someone to talk to, my DM's are open, msg me (discord down below), and most importantly just stay strong man. there are people in this world who still love and care for you. this happens a lot, and when i say this, by NO MEANS am i saying this is "normal" but it just means that there are people that can help you through this, and i am sure you can see in this thread by people sharing their stories and i am so proud of ppl like @Twisst for doing so. there IS some good in this community, and i would really encourage you to connect yourself with those people you can relate to. there is so much more to life than 11 years, yeah your dad may be gone, but it's not the end of the world. like some people have said, he may come back. it gives you a story to tell when you are older. if you are able to adapt and overcome, you will have one of the coolest stories to tell people when they ask you about your story. take it easy bud, you still have a whole life ahead of ya
Hi.
I’m Diego, nice to meet you.
I’m 18, I live in Ontario, Canada, and I’m currently working full time to afford tuition. I currently box in the Ontario Amateur leagues, I play soccer locally, and I graphic design when I can. I come from Peruvian heritage, and recently got a tattoo of a quilt my grandmother made before she passed away.
I’m introducing myself to you do you get at least a tiny bit of understanding of who I am. I’m just a normal bloke, and I live my life just like everyone else.
I have recently come out of a period of depression. To make a very, very long story short: I lost my gf who I thought was the love of my life, I went homeless to escape the turmoil I experienced at home, I almost flunked out of school, and I had no money to my name.
The reason I am sharing this (and the reason I am very open about topics like this) is so maybe, someone who is feeling anything even remotely similar to what I was feeling only a few months ago can reach out, talk to me, and get some help. I unfortunately had to deal with everything without a support system, and it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life. So if I can be there for you, it would mean the world to me.
I’m also telling you this because I am on the other side now. I have an apartment, a stable job, friends, I’ve reconnected with my family, and I have been accepted into University. It takes a lot of work, but you have people in this community at least who are willing to give you a hand and that is something very special. If you happen to read this (or anyone else), please shoot my a message either here or on discord. I’m more than happy to share my experience with you, what I did to overcome it, and just talk in general.
I hope you feel better buddy. I know this isn’t what you want to hear but situations like these only get better. It might be hard for now but remember, it’s okay to cry, it’s okay to talk about it, and it’s definitely okay to express your feelings in a safe manner. Don’t bottle anything up. We’re all here for you, we’re all rooting for you, and we would all like to hear from you again.
Stay strong buddy, we’re here if you need us.
Sincerely,
Diego
I’m Diego, nice to meet you.
I’m 18, I live in Ontario, Canada, and I’m currently working full time to afford tuition. I currently box in the Ontario Amateur leagues, I play soccer locally, and I graphic design when I can. I come from Peruvian heritage, and recently got a tattoo of a quilt my grandmother made before she passed away.I’m introducing myself to you do you get at least a tiny bit of understanding of who I am. I’m just a normal bloke, and I live my life just like everyone else.
I have recently come out of a period of depression. To make a very, very long story short: I lost my gf who I thought was the love of my life, I went homeless to escape the turmoil I experienced at home, I almost flunked out of school, and I had no money to my name.
The reason I am sharing this (and the reason I am very open about topics like this) is so maybe, someone who is feeling anything even remotely similar to what I was feeling only a few months ago can reach out, talk to me, and get some help. I unfortunately had to deal with everything without a support system, and it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life. So if I can be there for you, it would mean the world to me.
I’m also telling you this because I am on the other side now. I have an apartment, a stable job, friends, I’ve reconnected with my family, and I have been accepted into University. It takes a lot of work, but you have people in this community at least who are willing to give you a hand and that is something very special. If you happen to read this (or anyone else), please shoot my a message either here or on discord. I’m more than happy to share my experience with you, what I did to overcome it, and just talk in general.
I hope you feel better buddy. I know this isn’t what you want to hear but situations like these only get better. It might be hard for now but remember, it’s okay to cry, it’s okay to talk about it, and it’s definitely okay to express your feelings in a safe manner. Don’t bottle anything up. We’re all here for you, we’re all rooting for you, and we would all like to hear from you again.
Stay strong buddy, we’re here if you need us.
Sincerely,
Diego
I like this from ya, and wholeheartedly agree. People need to take it easy and step back sometimes. And there’s is so much to experience when you’re 11, you have much ahead of you at that age and it absolutely breaks my heart when anyone at any age feels like that, let alone someone who’s that young.i was reading through this all and i was just thinking, man the community is actually being SUPER nice for once, then i saw ur message and got sad again...
it's sad to see a community be so rough on people and it isn't just invaded, that is internet overall. if anyone is bothering you in DM's from the forums/in-game bud, always feel free to reach out to a staff member so they can handle it. i'll add you to the list of people i am currently praying for in this community, just had a subscriber who plays on InvadedLands often tell me his brother died in a car wreck and he feels killing himself is the only way to get over what he is going through. it's sad to see kids so young go through so much pain and as a kid i never went through any of this, so i really do hope the best of this situation. if you ever need someone to talk to, my DM's are open, msg me (discord down below), and most importantly just stay strong man. there are people in this world who still love and care for you. this happens a lot, and when i say this, by NO MEANS am i saying this is "normal" but it just means that there are people that can help you through this, and i am sure you can see in this thread by people sharing their stories and i am so proud of ppl like @Twisst for doing so. there IS some good in this community, and i would really encourage you to connect yourself with those people you can relate to. there is so much more to life than 11 years, yeah your dad may be gone, but it's not the end of the world. like some people have said, he may come back. it gives you a story to tell when you are older. if you are able to adapt and overcome, you will have one of the coolest stories to tell people when they ask you about your story. take it easy bud, you still have a whole life ahead of ya
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please call a help line or a therapist, surly this is worth calling the police
Dude, man if you need any help you have a lot of staff and friends here on Invadedlands (including me BMBradleyYT#7387) and don't be afraid to talk to us. ?. Remember, life puts us through tuff times, but we cannot give up.
Ik this msg doesn't actually help you, but I hope you find it inspiring to keep pushing. Remember IL is here for you?
Ik this msg doesn't actually help you, but I hope you find it inspiring to keep pushing. Remember IL is here for you?
you will get thru this stay positive. Msg me if u needa talk
as with my experience, I have learned that after 2 days you can file for a missing persons report if adult leaves for a while. if getting yelled at by mum is bad think about what you are calling for. you are saving your dad, and we wanna help. I personally fell your pain, I basically lived with my cousins for 13 years until they had to move away, I haven't seen them since. I have cried, and grieved, and let yourself feel sad for a while. it will help you get over it. but don't let it change how you are as a person. sorry about it thats all I can really say
Stay positive even though even I, myself, can never handle stuff like this properly.
Hey man. add me on discord, shibas#8641It’s been going on for a while now but my mum and dad have been arguing about this and that, nothing out of the ordinary, but 7 minutes ago my dad just left the house and gave me 100 bux and said “this is for your headset” I though ah he just needs a little break from mum BUT NO he said he is never coming back and my mum pissed him off. I am literally crying while making this post. Someone please help me, this has just scared me and idk what to do, I only have you guys and that’s why I am making this post, PLEASE give
Me tips when your parents divorced. I was thinking about calling cps but I don’t think it’s a good idea. Just please comment or say somthing nice to me
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