For a while I have been considering leaving Invaded forever. Sure, there is a chance, an approximate 5% chance I will be in a vid by Skeppy/Zelkam, but besides that, this community has honestly been nothing but toxic and mean to me for the more than 1 year I have been part of it. In fact, after I started playing here, about 2 weeks or so, due to meanness of the community, I was diagnosed with Depression. IDK if I should leave, as I have donated $1000+ dollars to the server. I also submitted a Staff Application that I worked super hard on, but that can be closed within 3 minutes. Should I leave?
Should I leave Invaded?
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You’re sad because the community is mean and toxic to you?
Lemme tell ya, you shouldn’t be focused on getting in a video. What’s the purpose? “Fame”?
Look, I don’t wanna come off as harsh here, but other people will. I’m no fanboy, but I can guarantee you that this community reverts you from that real quick.
If you’ve donated $1000+ here, (which is insane) I can tell you’ll fit the bill for what I’m about to say.
The community doesn’t like people who spam the chat waiting to get in a video.
The community doesn’t like people who sit at spawn when they’re supposed to be at school, waiting for the prophet skeppy.
That’s why they’re mean to you.
If you worked so hard on that application, great. Have some faith that you’ll be accepted. I’d say stay.
But it’s all up to you.
Lemme tell ya, you shouldn’t be focused on getting in a video. What’s the purpose? “Fame”?
Look, I don’t wanna come off as harsh here, but other people will. I’m no fanboy, but I can guarantee you that this community reverts you from that real quick.
If you’ve donated $1000+ here, (which is insane) I can tell you’ll fit the bill for what I’m about to say.
The community doesn’t like people who spam the chat waiting to get in a video.
The community doesn’t like people who sit at spawn when they’re supposed to be at school, waiting for the prophet skeppy.
That’s why they’re mean to you.
If you worked so hard on that application, great. Have some faith that you’ll be accepted. I’d say stay.
But it’s all up to you.
The thing is, I don't spam in chat to be in a vid.
OK, I will react if something like Zelkam is picking someone to write a haiku or something, then I will say in chat something like "i am good" or something like that.
I am not a fanboy each other.
who r u spending 1k cash on a minecraft server
I believe you should do what you think is best. If you're at a transitional stage to where things are getting difficult, its easy to make decisions that could hinder everyday things. I wouldnt let the communiry decide whether or not you should leave but rather you taking a break from the server and see how you are after. I am sorry that things have not been going your way. Mental health is very overlooked especially in this decade. You can't heal if you domt detach from what you believe is toxic. If you ever need someone please message me or even message me on discord. Ember#4804
Just apart from everything else that's already been said, the purpose of a game is to have fun. If you are not having fun playing in the server, please don't put yourself through an experience that's bogging you down in hopes of something like appearing in a video.
That being said if you have indeed invested that money into the server, personally I would never leave. I couldn't justify leaving the server to myself if Is spent that amount of money.
Whatever your choice is, I hope you do have fun with whatever you decide to do moving on, and if you do stay, I hope your experience improves!
That being said if you have indeed invested that money into the server, personally I would never leave. I couldn't justify leaving the server to myself if Is spent that amount of money.
Whatever your choice is, I hope you do have fun with whatever you decide to do moving on, and if you do stay, I hope your experience improves!
This community has its ups and downs, but for me the experience is what I make it to be. The toxicity in the community will always be there and all we can do is try to reduce it by fighting it with positivity. Also I'm going to be brutally honest on this, if you can't handle the toxicity on the server then being a moderator in Invaded is not for you. Toxicity around the community is something a moderator will always be going through and it must be handled in a mature manner. I get sometimes the things that people can say is harsh, but it's always important to have a tough heart sometimes and just ignore it. Don't think of yourself any less from what people say, you seem like a very nice human being and don't think you're not. If you ever need someone to talk too, my discord is Twisst#4470
I'll be honest when people are toxic to you just ignore them,dont respond back and else you'll just waste your time on them and its not worth it,try to find a couple of friends in the server and just play with them,it will make u fell better
Good to see that!
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Happy to hear that! Hopefully I see you around! If you’re ever on survival shoot me a message!
You’ve been diagnosed with depression because of this community? It’s up to you, but if you’ve been diagnosed with depression and it’s getting worse I’d probably leave
Don't try and get on a video. If you just want to get on a video and the people are toxic, then you should leave. There is no point of trying because of the little fame you probably won't even get. Just go to Skeppy's servers when he does stuff if you want to be in a video.
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if you donated 1k to a Invaded your mental, and i do not believe you. If people are being toxic........ Just ignore them. And if you are apart of this community for fame, i am sorry ijust cant understand that. Oh, and evites before i was interested on being staff on IL you were being toxic yourself to me and other players. I just wish i took proof and reported you. Not for my sake( because i dont make polls probably for fame and pretend to be deppressed so i can be in a video)but for the community. Not trying to be mean, but just stop. Please ;\
So I stopped you from applying for staff? bruh. and wym I was being toxic to you? you have 2 msgs
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To be honest with you if you actually have donated to the server 1000+ dollars and have submitted an application it is really not worth leaving. 1000$ is a lot of money and leaving because you don't think you will get the chance to be in a video of zelkam or either skeppy and because the community is toxic here is my opinion most of the community is people/kids who watch skeppy's vids and try to be trolly annoying and toxic at the same time so I don't really know what you are expecting from these people. I personally play for fun, to meet new people and for the experience. I really haven't heard of you but from what you said I don't think it is worth leaving. Good luck to you!
toxic ingame and you didnt stop me
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