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why have more players been leaving invadedlands

why has this been happening

  • idk

    Votes: 6 15.8%

  • because of reset

    Votes: 6 15.8%

  • because of the changes

    Votes: 9 23.7%

  • bc they are geting bored of the server

    Votes: 28 73.7%

  • because there focusing on IRL stuff

    Votes: 13 34.2%

  • bc the server is geting innaprpopiate

    Votes: 5 13.2%

  • bc ppl are just being lazy and bc of pay to win

    Votes: 9 23.7%

  • maybe bc the staff team is not doing that good of a job

    Votes: 11 28.9%

  • bc of the reset and ppl are wasting there money on the server(new theory)

    Votes: 5 13.2%
  • Total voters
    38
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why have more players been leaving invadedlands

DiamondGirl2912 said:
first of all I don't remember saying that i have depression, and Vitemin D isn't some magic cure to depression. Oh and wdym dumping it on staff? all i asked them was to be a little nicer, help some more and maybe change the rules a bit to help the server grow. i didn't ask them to be an unpaid therepist. I actually made a list of things with some people of changes that should be made, and none of those include dumping everything on staff. if u think i'm exaggerating, fine! but i'm really not. I got a screenshot of someone saying ''I'm trying to not do the knife into body thing'' You think thats normal? and we can see very clearly that multiple posts have been made about mental health problems, i don't blame staff for the full 100%, players also play a little role on this server, but i cant ask ever single player to change because someone gets suicidal thoughts of stuff they say. But what i can do is inform staff of whats happening, and explain that it might also be partly because of them. wich i tried, but then stuff happend and i decided staff really isnt worth my time. and no i don't have evidence of staff being rude, disrecpectfull and mean. (only 1 ss but Smoke already left the staff team) I just didn't expect i would need to spy on them and make a screenshot of every single mistake! so all i can do now is tell the enire truth of what happend, and advise people to quit, i don't do it in like posts or stuff, just in pms when people are already thinking about it. I'm not just here to ruin InvadedLands??? also I also did some stuff wrong, but atleast i tried listening to them, but it has to come from both sides, wich is why it didn't work.
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i never directed the being depressed part specifically at you anyway, you said multiple people (half the server according to you (source: trust me bro)) have depression, so that was more of a PSA seen as, well, according to you, 50% of the people reading my message would be depressed. so it was just some form of advice. further advice i do wanna give is seek help of a professional! often, your doctor that you'd go to for regular check ups, etc. can help you further in getting professional mental health help, in most cases. if not, theres also online mental health help that can also help you! look into it on your own accord, and of course, with your own risk.

now that that's out of the way;
i'm curious what rule changes you suggested to "help the server grow"? also, if you think the server has this many issues, surely you wouldn't want the server to grow, as it'd only cause more issues, because more players = more things to do and fix for the staff team? again, you're just saying stuff without showing evidence of anything. for all i know, you could be fabricating this entire story without having any evidence at all, and just making it up on the spot? if i were to say that i know someone that had a fight with staff and staff said horrible stuff, would you believe me without evidence? if no, think about how your points come across to others who don't have the supposed evidence you do. once again, i understand if it isn't your own evidence, but if it isn't your own evidence or your own story, how can you be mad enough to write entire essays about it if they themselves aren't doing this? you're being a middleman for a situation that doesnt need that at all.

the fact you also mention you straight up have zero evidence of staff being cruel, mean or disrespectful entirely voids your point aswell, no? your entire thing is that staff isn't doing enough, dismissing problems like its nothing, etc. but then you say you have zero evidence of that happening at all? that's just odd to me, is all.

furthermore, a claim getting griefed shouldn't be an end of the world situation, as, well, with some "bad luck", survival will reset soon anyway, just like it has, like, what, 17 times since it's first opening, now?

staff indeed shouldn't be unpaid therapists, like you say yourself. although, your points, point towards you yourself not agreeing with that. you expect staff members to be there for people who feel depressed and anxious, even suicidal. although, a staff member can be at the youngest 15, going through their own emotional turmoil. this, i think, does not qualify them to be in this role, nor should you expect this of them, which you, according to your own messages, do expect. this is once again pushing unfair expectations and responsibilites on staff members, of who you do not know anything about their personal life. just like how "i dont know x player like that", you don't know the staff team like that.

to spy on staff members and screenshot all their mistakes is just blatantly insane. they are also human, and allowed to make these mistakes. furthermore, you haven't provided any evidence that they have made mistakes, at all.
 
Japaneseskeppy said:
Mqgy was being 100% polite in this photo. XD
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Even if so isn’t mqgy not dealing with the problem? You can be polite and still be rude, by politely dismissing someone you just make that person feel like they do not matter, no matter your opinion you will just always be dismissed because staff can’t be wrong, and their is tons of other issues with this server players, staff, etc
 
Nokatana said:
Even if so isn’t mqgy not dealing with the problem? You can be polite and still be rude, by politely dismissing someone you just make that person feel like they do not matter, no matter your opinion you will just always be dismissed because staff can’t be wrong, and their is tons of other issues with this server players, staff, etc
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i'd say magy is actively dealing with the problem by asking if the custom rank looked the same within the menu or not, adding on that some things like a # can cause issues with the creation of a custom rank. also, managers are the only ones who do custom ranks and approve them, so in any situation possible this would not be magys fault, nor is she avoiding the problem. not even by leaving the "chat", because she said to make a purchase support.

"you can be polite and still be rude"... sorry, what?

maybe if you see it as politely dismissing somebody, that might be on you and how you perceive the message. to me, in the screenshot, magy isnt showing any dismissive behaviour, purely trying to help and get the player their intended custom rank, although that needs some extra information i reckon which, well, if i follow the line of questioning, wasn't given in the first place.

also, they literally chose the rank. you cant just change a custom rank because you dont like it, you actively chose it so deal with your own choices & said consequences of those choices
 
Nokatana said:
I’m not 100% sure, and the stuff I do know about what people have done to diamondgirl I am not announcing publicly or privately.
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stop being the middleman, nobody needs to hear "oh but this person has this and said this" etcetera, we all want things to go smoothly on a server we want to play on and enjoy. if you dont enjoy, simply, dont play!
 
blumun said:
i never directed the being depressed part specifically at you anyway, you said multiple people (half the server according to you (source: trust me bro)) have depression, so that was more of a PSA seen as, well, according to you, 50% of the people reading my message would be depressed. so it was just some form of advice. further advice i do wanna give is seek help of a professional! often, your doctor that you'd go to for regular check ups, etc. can help you further in getting professional mental health help, in most cases. if not, theres also online mental health help that can also help you! look into it on your own accord, and of course, with your own risk.

now that that's out of the way;
i'm curious what rule changes you suggested to "help the server grow"? also, if you think the server has this many issues, surely you wouldn't want the server to grow, as it'd only cause more issues, because more players = more things to do and fix for the staff team? again, you're just saying stuff without showing evidence of anything. for all i know, you could be fabricating this entire story without having any evidence at all, and just making it up on the spot? if i were to say that i know someone that had a fight with staff and staff said horrible stuff, would you believe me without evidence? if no, think about how your points come across to others who don't have the supposed evidence you do. once again, i understand if it isn't your own evidence, but if it isn't your own evidence or your own story, how can you be mad enough to write entire essays about it if they themselves aren't doing this? you're being a middleman for a situation that doesnt need that at all.

the fact you also mention you straight up have zero evidence of staff being cruel, mean or disrespectful entirely voids your point aswell, no? your entire thing is that staff isn't doing enough, dismissing problems like its nothing, etc. but then you say you have zero evidence of that happening at all? that's just odd to me, is all.

furthermore, a claim getting griefed shouldn't be an end of the world situation, as, well, with some "bad luck", survival will reset soon anyway, just like it has, like, what, 17 times since it's first opening, now?

staff indeed shouldn't be unpaid therapists, like you say yourself. although, your points, point towards you yourself not agreeing with that. you expect staff members to be there for people who feel depressed and anxious, even suicidal. although, a staff member can be at the youngest 15, going through their own emotional turmoil. this, i think, does not qualify them to be in this role, nor should you expect this of them, which you, according to your own messages, do expect. this is once again pushing unfair expectations and responsibilites on staff members, of who you do not know anything about their personal life. just like how "i dont know x player like that", you don't know the staff team like that.

to spy on staff members and screenshot all their mistakes is just blatantly insane. they are also human, and allowed to make these mistakes. furthermore, you haven't provided any evidence that they have made mistakes, at all.
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Tbh ur really pissing me of, but i can write more then 1 entire essay if you want! also you sound like 7gtz rn 😭
 
DiamondGirl2912 said:
Tbh ur really pissing me of, but i can write more then 1 entire essay if you want! also you sound like 7gtz rn 😭
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i see that as a compliment that you compare me to 7, as i find him to be an intelligent individual.

i'm sorry that i'm "pissing you off", but i am curious about that essay!
it is my intention to have a civil discussion about this as we are both players on the server and stakeholders in this online community formed around the server InvadedLands. The essays i've written pertain to important issues concerning many of the playerbase of said server, and this includes you as a player, person and entity. I'd like to see where your opinions lie within these arguements and discussion points, and whether or not you can provide any evidence at all to back up your claims that you have made in previous comments, under this thread and other threads i have seen floating around on these forums. The fact that you keep saying you have evidence, but don't show any, maybe proves the fact that there is no need for this discussion at all and that you are simply

yapping.
 
blumun said:
i never directed the being depressed part specifically at you anyway, you said multiple people (half the server according to you (source: trust me bro)) have depression, so that was more of a PSA seen as, well, according to you, 50% of the people reading my message would be depressed. so it was just some form of advice. further advice i do wanna give is seek help of a professional! often, your doctor that you'd go to for regular check ups, etc. can help you further in getting professional mental health help, in most cases. if not, theres also online mental health help that can also help you! look into it on your own accord, and of course, with your own risk.

now that that's out of the way;
i'm curious what rule changes you suggested to "help the server grow"? also, if you think the server has this many issues, surely you wouldn't want the server to grow, as it'd only cause more issues, because more players = more things to do and fix for the staff team? again, you're just saying stuff without showing evidence of anything. for all i know, you could be fabricating this entire story without having any evidence at all, and just making it up on the spot? if i were to say that i know someone that had a fight with staff and staff said horrible stuff, would you believe me without evidence? if no, think about how your points come across to others who don't have the supposed evidence you do. once again, i understand if it isn't your own evidence, but if it isn't your own evidence or your own story, how can you be mad enough to write entire essays about it if they themselves aren't doing this? you're being a middleman for a situation that doesnt need that at all.

the fact you also mention you straight up have zero evidence of staff being cruel, mean or disrespectful entirely voids your point aswell, no? your entire thing is that staff isn't doing enough, dismissing problems like its nothing, etc. but then you say you have zero evidence of that happening at all? that's just odd to me, is all.

furthermore, a claim getting griefed shouldn't be an end of the world situation, as, well, with some "bad luck", survival will reset soon anyway, just like it has, like, what, 17 times since it's first opening, now?

staff indeed shouldn't be unpaid therapists, like you say yourself. although, your points, point towards you yourself not agreeing with that. you expect staff members to be there for people who feel depressed and anxious, even suicidal. although, a staff member can be at the youngest 15, going through their own emotional turmoil. this, i think, does not qualify them to be in this role, nor should you expect this of them, which you, according to your own messages, do expect. this is once again pushing unfair expectations and responsibilites on staff members, of who you do not know anything about their personal life. just like how "i dont know x player like that", you don't know the staff team like that.

to spy on staff members and screenshot all their mistakes is just blatantly insane. they are also human, and allowed to make these mistakes. furthermore, you haven't provided any evidence that they have made mistakes, at all.
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I do see your point, but also Diamondgirl does have proof, but why does she have to share that with you? She’s telling someone something and clearly isn’t okay and she’s saying staff have caused her problems, also yes she is wrong about some things but as you say “They are also human, and allowed to make these mistakes.” So, why does that only apply for staff right here? And staff her mental health issues aren’t their problem, but if your trying to tell staff something and they stay stuck up because they can’t admit their is a dang thing wrong about their server isn’t that unfair? Also it seems like you are some staff defender smh. And “entire essays” you are writing like a book right here, so you don’t have anything to say about that part. “17” times way over that bruh, and while it’s not the end of the world situation she has perfect right to say more problems then one with this server, also getting griefed you took time of your life and some people’s bases take 10hrs + also for the loot they get 6hrs + so just seeing 16hrs + go past you that you just waisted is just saddening. Also you say see a mental therapist? Why the heck would someone do that, (1) it’s someone you’ve never met and are telling everything to (2) how do you know you can trust this person (3) is this help going to last? “To spy on the staff members is just blatantly insane” you asked for proof, and she got it for people like you.
 
Nokatana said:
I do see your point, but also Diamondgirl does have proof, but why does she have to share that with you? She’s telling someone something and clearly isn’t okay and she’s saying staff have caused her problems, also yes she is wrong about some things but as you say “They are also human, and allowed to make these mistakes.” So, why does that only apply for staff right here? And staff her mental health issues aren’t their problem, but if your trying to tell staff something and they stay stuck up because they can’t admit their is a dang thing wrong about their server isn’t that unfair? Also it seems like you are some staff defender smh. And “entire essays” you are writing like a book right here, so you don’t have anything to say about that part. “17” times way over that bruh, and while it’s not the end of the world situation she has perfect right to say more problems then one with this server, also getting griefed you took time of your life and some people’s bases take 10hrs + also for the loot they get 6hrs + so just seeing 16hrs + go past you that you just waisted is just saddening. Also you say see a mental therapist? Why the heck would someone do that, (1) it’s someone you’ve never met and are telling everything to (2) how do you know you can trust this person (3) is this help going to last? “To spy on the staff members is just blatantly insane” you asked for proof, and she got it for people like you.
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Yes, I see what you mean but someone getting depressed over a game is insane to me.
 
blumun said:
i see that as a compliment that you compare me to 7, as i find him to be an intelligent individual.

i'm sorry that i'm "pissing you off", but i am curious about that essay!
it is my intention to have a civil discussion about this as we are both players on the server and stakeholders in this online community formed around the server InvadedLands. The essays i've written pertain to important issues concerning many of the playerbase of said server, and this includes you as a player, person and entity. I'd like to see where your opinions lie within these arguements and discussion points, and whether or not you can provide any evidence at all to back up your claims that you have made in previous comments, under this thread and other threads i have seen floating around on these forums. The fact that you keep saying you have evidence, but don't show any, maybe proves the fact that there is no need for this discussion at all and that you are simply

yapping.
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Hahaha, ur funny.

yk i really like to debate with people, and i'm in for one if you are! But just stop trying to impress staff like that. I know they are probably watching but thats just being a pet. also I don't really like these sharp comments, maybe write more like you instead if this combination of staff and AI.
 
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