Okay, if you can't or don't want to give proof of anything, let's leave that out of the question completely. Can you recall any situations in a little bit of detail of staff being rude, dismissive or disrespectful to you or others?well that probably took you a while to type. i have to admit, yes i have been toxic and i have made mistakes due to something unrelated. but i am genuidly sorry and just worried about multiple players on InvadedLands, because they told me personal stuff that you do not need to know. Staff has also made mistakes, but they are real people and volunteers, i understand that. But the amount of mistakes they make is just way to big if you ask me. and no, i don't hate people, i just dislike them (like some of the staff) and if they are mean to me AND i dislike them, then i get toxic and pretty mean sometimes. but i try to avoid that and stay kind, wich is pretty hard rn. Also i never said that staff should be therapist, you keep saying that i want them to be one but you only read what you want to read. if you actually look at my posts you can litterly see me saying that they are not, and that they shouldn't be. also i don't actually dislike the entire staff team, but i just think its cruel to say names, but if you perfer that then i will. also me not showing any evidence of these mental health problems due to privacy, and i did show 1 ss of smokePVP being rudde but, in your opinion, it was handeld correctly. Thats okay, i cant expect everyone to 100% agree or disagree with me, i know that. i dont know if i responded to everything now, but 1 more thing. I'm not mean and disrecpectfull to anyone who doesnt agree with me, i'm actually friends with some of these people![]()
Also, disliking someone and them being mean to you also might have correlation to eachother. The fact I have never once intended to hate, said that multiple times but you legitimately go out of your way to insult me is proof of that.
Also, I never said the situation was handled correctly, I simply said the thing he said wasn't necessarily false. If somebody else gets muted, what business is that of anybody BUT the person who got muted and the staff member who muted them?
You have not responded to everything, I will list my unanswered questions below:
- You stated yourself you were quitting the server, discord and forums completely, yet you're still here on the forums daily?
- Why did you bring Goldwarrier into this at all? They were not mentioned in any of my posts, why bring them into this?
- You categorized the entire staff team into 1 singular entity, but then proceeded to only name one (1) staff member in your response. Is this the only staff member you have any experience with them being negative in any way you have mentioned before (Dismissive, disrespectful, rude, etc.)
- You keep saying that staff have made a great amount of mistakes, yet you have, so far, only mentioned 1 specific instance of this. Do you have any more instances?
I do want to add on, whenever I have seen a staff member be present in the server, in an unvanished manner, they usually get spammed in chat with around 20-30 messages (of course depending on the activity) in public chat, at least at the height of playercount on that day. I can only imagine that their /msgs are also being spammed with the same types of things. It is humanly impossible for a singular staff member to look at every single thing going on on the server, whether you'd like them to or not. It just simply is not a realistic standard or expectation to set of any staff member. They are, like I have mentioned before, fully voluntary in their staffing.
I also think this is a weird standard to set. If you're truly willing to have an open discussion about things that staff actually do wrong, this would not be an issue. Staff is set to the same standards of following the rules as us, plus extra responsibilities and rules on top. This is just how staffing on a minecraft server works. You cannot delete or edit messages that do not break any rules. If your messages keep getting deleted, it is because you are in violation of one or multiple rules which means it isn't the staff member's fault, but it's yours. Change the wording of your message, or avoid a certain topic as a whole, but that doesn't mean you cannot speak about things staff supposedly do wrong. It is once you bring up toxicity or sensitive topics that are not allowed as per the forum rules that would warrant your message being altered or deleted.do you have discord by any chance? 7gtz is watching so i cant really reply :3

