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Reasons why I don't like to socialise in real life.

Reasons why I don't like to socialise in real life.

boobtron said:
understandable, its normal not to like someone

just try to convince yourself you can trust some people. u dont need to trust everyone, but u need to find people who seem fine. after that, try and branch out with friends of friends and etc

we're all awkward at times, just try to overcome it

yes, but the memories of friends will last, and it'll be good memories

thats why u wanna have some variety in friendships. u dont just wanna have ur one friend from like math class and thats it, u wanna try and multiple friends from multiple different places. dont put all ur eggs in one basket

just try and overcome that and try and involve urself

they wont, just try and be friendly and nice, its hard to judge or pick on someone who is friendly and nice

just try and get involved, find people with similar interests, and yea

u dont have to

i dont think any normal person will make fun of u for not finding it super easy to make friends.
also, if you ever do feel very down, or u just want someone to talk to, u can ask ur parents to take u to a therapist

kk tl;dr: u have nothing to be afraid of, just try and find friends who have similar interests. u have nothing to be nervous about, because everyone wants to be friends with nice people, so you just have to be friendly. try not to avoid social interaction, try to start up conversations (at appropriate times). overall, involve yourself and be yourself.

even tho idk u irl, ill be ur friend.
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It's really not as simple as it seems I honestly don't have trust for anyone, not even my family. My family wouldn't understand and they would always think I'm this way because of the "video games" and I'll have some brain disorder if I keep playing them, I have to wait till they leave the house so I can actually talk to people that I want to talk to. My life is so messed up I don't understand how anyone else would live in my shoes.

My grades are low, my father is probably being unfaithful and buying the most random and useless things, my sisters don't talk to each other and only talk to me if the have question or need something, my mother is just a living devil, she genuinely took away my freedom and my access to even smile, one of the only ways I'm happy if i just talk to friends online and other than that I don't have anything to do in this house.

I cannot talk to people, they are all loud, annoying, fake, or just clueless and can't do anything so they rely on someone else. The only real friends I have are people in this community and it's why it will stay close to me forever.

It's crazy how much this community has done for me in the past 2-3 years, I don't know how my life would be if I had never gotten into Minecraft, would I have done better in life? Would my life be easier? I don't know, and that's the reason I tend not to talk to people, I've just been controlled and manipulated and lied my whole life and I'm not gonna let that happen again.
 
FestiveTashi said:
It's really not as simple as it seems I honestly don't have trust for anyone, not even my family. My family wouldn't understand and they would always think I'm this way because of the "video games" and I'll have some brain disorder if I keep playing them, I have to wait till they leave the house so I can actually talk to people that I want to talk to. My life is so messed up I don't understand how anyone else would live in my shoes.

My grades are low, my father is probably being unfaithful and buying the most random and useless things, my sisters don't talk to each other and only talk to me if the have question or need something, my mother is just a living devil, she genuinely took away my freedom and my access to even smile, one of the only ways I'm happy if i just talk to friends online and other than that I don't have anything to do in this house.

I cannot talk to people, they are all loud, annoying, fake, or just clueless and can't do anything so they rely on someone else. The only real friends I have are people in this community and it's why it will stay close to me forever.

It's crazy how much this community has done for me in the past 2-3 years, I don't know how my life would be if I had never gotten into Minecraft, would I have done better in life? Would my life be easier? I don't know, and that's the reason I tend not to talk to people, I've just been controlled and manipulated and lied my whole life and I'm not gonna let that happen again.
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FestiveTashi said:
It's really not as simple as it seems I honestly don't have trust for anyone, not even my family. My family wouldn't understand and they would always think I'm this way because of the "video games" and I'll have some brain disorder if I keep playing them, I have to wait till they leave the house so I can actually talk to people that I want to talk to. My life is so messed up I don't understand how anyone else would live in my shoes.

My grades are low, my father is probably being unfaithful and buying the most random and useless things, my sisters don't talk to each other and only talk to me if the have question or need something, my mother is just a living devil, she genuinely took away my freedom and my access to even smile, one of the only ways I'm happy if i just talk to friends online and other than that I don't have anything to do in this house.

I cannot talk to people, they are all loud, annoying, fake, or just clueless and can't do anything so they rely on someone else. The only real friends I have are people in this community and it's why it will stay close to me forever.

It's crazy how much this community has done for me in the past 2-3 years, I don't know how my life would be if I had never gotten into Minecraft, would I have done better in life? Would my life be easier? I don't know, and that's the reason I tend not to talk to people, I've just been controlled and manipulated and lied my whole life and I'm not gonna let that happen again.
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Ummm. I really don't mean to be rude but why are you posting this at a block game forum.
 
boobtron said:
understandable, its normal not to like someone

just try to convince yourself you can trust some people. u dont need to trust everyone, but u need to find people who seem fine. after that, try and branch out with friends of friends and etc

we're all awkward at times, just try to overcome it

yes, but the memories of friends will last, and it'll be good memories

thats why u wanna have some variety in friendships. u dont just wanna have ur one friend from like math class and thats it, u wanna try and multiple friends from multiple different places. dont put all ur eggs in one basket

just try and overcome that and try and involve urself

they wont, just try and be friendly and nice, its hard to judge or pick on someone who is friendly and nice

just try and get involved, find people with similar interests, and yea

u dont have to

i dont think any normal person will make fun of u for not finding it super easy to make friends.
also, if you ever do feel very down, or u just want someone to talk to, u can ask ur parents to take u to a therapist

kk tl;dr: u have nothing to be afraid of, just try and find friends who have similar interests. u have nothing to be nervous about, because everyone wants to be friends with nice people, so you just have to be friendly. try not to avoid social interaction, try to start up conversations (at appropriate times). overall, involve yourself and be yourself.

even tho idk u irl, ill be ur friend.
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you fr are by far are the nicest person on da forums :D:cool:
 
FestiveTashi said:
1. I simple don't like some people.
2. I have major trust issues.
3. I'm awkward.
4. I tend not to make friends because one day I won't ever see them again.
5. If I do ever make close friends, I'm afraid of them leaving me or if I get replaced.
6. I've moved to school about 6 times in my life and that's reason why I don't talk to people that much.
7. I feel like they will always judge me for literally anything.
8. I've had fake friends in the past and I can't be bothered to have more.
9. In general I have a hard time talking to someone and I have never told anybody about what's going on in my life and I don't plan on doing so anytime soon.

I didn't make this post for sympathy or clout, so please don't make any assumptions about this, call me a loner, make fun of me, do whatever I couldn't care less.
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or you just dont have a fking life LMFAO L nerd
 
FestiveTashi said:
It's really not as simple as it seems I honestly don't have trust for anyone, not even my family. My family wouldn't understand and they would always think I'm this way because of the "video games" and I'll have some brain disorder if I keep playing them, I have to wait till they leave the house so I can actually talk to people that I want to talk to. My life is so messed up I don't understand how anyone else would live in my shoes.

My grades are low, my father is probably being unfaithful and buying the most random and useless things, my sisters don't talk to each other and only talk to me if the have question or need something, my mother is just a living devil, she genuinely took away my freedom and my access to even smile, one of the only ways I'm happy if i just talk to friends online and other than that I don't have anything to do in this house.

I cannot talk to people, they are all loud, annoying, fake, or just clueless and can't do anything so they rely on someone else. The only real friends I have are people in this community and it's why it will stay close to me forever.

It's crazy how much this community has done for me in the past 2-3 years, I don't know how my life would be if I had never gotten into Minecraft, would I have done better in life? Would my life be easier? I don't know, and that's the reason I tend not to talk to people, I've just been controlled and manipulated and lied my whole life and I'm not gonna let that happen again.
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